Rebecca Sheridan
Sunday, July 29, 2018
Ruth 1:1-22
You may not be familiar with the details of story of Ruth, but many of us have heard those verses from the first chapter of Ruth before: “Where you go, I go; and where you live, I’ll live. Your people are my people – your God is my god; where you die, I’ll die, and that is where I’ll be buried, so help me God.” What a powerful statement of loyalty, for a widow to her mother-in-law, for a foreigner, a Moabite, to profess her faith in the living God of the Hebrews, Naomi’s God. Now, think about your relationship with your in-laws, whether it be siblings-in-law or a mother or father-in-law. Mothers-in-law in particular have a bad reputation, don’t they? When we get married, when someone in our family gets married, we try to receive that person and treat them as our own family, but not all of us can say that we embrace our in-laws with the love and loyalty that Ruth sticks with Naomi, through thick and thin. Ruth is a book that helps us think about what loyalty actually means, in the context of our faith. How are we loyal to one another as brothers and sisters in Christ, how are we loyal to God, and most importantly, how is God loyal to us?
So, if you struggle with your in-laws, you’re not alone, but who or what are you loyal to? Do you have a tight family, a loyal spouse? Perhaps you have good friends who are like family? What else are you loyal to, and why? Some of us have our certain favorite brands of food, cars, yes, we may even be loyal to a particular brand of toilet paper. Of course, we have our favorite sports teams, politicians or candidates. You may prefer Channel 7 over Channel 3 or 6 for the local news. And many of us have strong feelings of loyalty toward our country, the United States, and to our church, whether it’s to the ELCA nationally or to our beloved congregation of Bethel Lutheran Church.
When I step back and think about my loyalty to certain things, some of them are quite silly, in the grand scheme of things. For example, I think a Toyota Prius is the best car ever. I love my little hybrid. There are many reasons I am loyal to my car and to the larger Toyota brand (and no, I did not get paid for saying this). In its four years and 50+ thousand miles of life it has averaged 50 mpg. I have loaded up a treadmill and 20 bags of mulch from Home Depot in its spacious hatchback trunk. It isn’t the zippy-est car on the block, but it has gotten me reliably from point a to point b with only oil changes and new tires for maintenance. I love my car, I tell everyone about how much I love my car, and yes, while it is no longer new, I have a hard time seeing any of its flaws. I lovingly take care of it, vaccuming and dusting its interior and making sure the exterior is washed regularly, in the summer, by hand.
When I was reflecting on the things I am particularly loyal to, I was a little ashamed to admit how easy it is for me to be loyal to stuff, rather than people, or to God. When I think about the amount of care and maintenance I dedicate to my car and how much I talk about my car with others, how much more ought I to be talking with people about God? How much more could I be tending to my relationship with God with such dedication and devotion?
This is where the story of Ruth and Naomi can really hit home for us. Ruth can teach us a thing or two about what it really means to be loyal to someone for the right reasons, and what it means to be loyal to God. At the beginning of the story of Ruth, these three women, Ruth, Naomi, and Orpah, are experiencing much loss – Naomi in particular. Naomi has just lost her husband and her sons. She has no blood-relation to take care of her, and she knows she is vulnerable as an older single woman, so she decides to return home to Bethlehem where she might find someone to take care of her. She has no expectation that either of her daughters-in-law will come with her on this arduous journey. At least for Ruth and Orpah, they are young, and they are at home in Moab. They can create a new life for themselves, Naomi reminds them. Even so, Ruth remains loyal to her mother-in-law and to this new God of Israel that she has been introduced to through her husband’s family. She doesn’t want Naomi to travel alone, and she knows she can help care for Naomi.
In this first chapter of the story, we learn that Naomi is depressed. Just listen to how she speaks about God: “Don’t call me Naomi, call me Bitter. The Strong One has dealt me a bitter blow. I left here full of life, and God has brought me back with nothing but the clothes on my back. Why would you call me Naomi? God certainly doesn’t. The Strong One ruined me.” How many of you in times of loss and heartache yourselves have spoken about God like this? God can take it – Naomi teaches us it’s OK to be angry with God. But it’s the foreigner, Ruth, the Moabite, traditional enemies of Israel, who restores Naomi’s faith and trust in God again. Ruth gives Naomi hope that God will take care of them both after this time of great loss, and God will care for them as they return to Bethlehem, which is ready to reap a plentiful harvest of barley after a time of famine. As we turn to chapter two of the book of Ruth next week, we hear this promise at the end of chapter one that God is loyal to us. God doesn’t forget us even when it feels like it sometimes. God never forsakes or abandons us. God provides: feast after famine, new love after loss, a chosen family beyond our flesh and blood relationships.
Ruth teaches us that true loyalty is not simply blind allegiance, or preference of a commercial brand. Loyalty requires sacrifice, perseverance, and dedication. Ruth takes an optimistic risk that she and Naomi travelling together and living in Bethlehem together will be better off than if they tried to move on from their losses alone. In Ruth’s persistent insistence to stay with Naomi, she reminds Naomi of her own faith and trust in God’s provision. God will provide. God will show them a way to live moving forward. God does have a bigger picture in mind for them, and for the whole world through them! In fact, as we know from the gospel of Matthew, through God’s providence, Ruth will be in the line of King David and therefore an ancestor of Jesus, the Messiah, the Christ. In striving to love others as we love God, to expand our definition of what it means to be family because we’re united as the body of Christ, we discover just as Naomi and Ruth do, that God is faithful, loyal, to us. God never gives up on us. In Jesus Christ, God makes sacrifices and takes risks for our behalf. And God often works through other people to remind us of God’s great and persistent love for us. Amen.